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The Wedding Day That Could Have Been

Posted on March 14th, 2011

The slug line under the header of the full-page ad read, “See it. Love it. Buy it.” I flipped through the pages of $800 heels and $250 bangles in my sister’s most recent edition of InStyle. True, I loved what I saw, but I certainly wasn’t going to spend a month’s salary on a pair of snakeskin shoes. I set the magazine down, but couldn’t help thinking that the advertisement’s call to action was persuasive. Anyone with the money and frivolity available to them could be unconsciously convinced. Our culture advertises to us 24/7. Television and radio commercials, billboards, cereal boxes, newspapers, magazines, fliers, and websites form a constant barrage of material promises. Our money is desired, our attention sought after, and our time…

Why Good Men Won’t Marry

Posted on December 7th, 2010

This article assumes that some good men won’t marry. Not that they won’t ever marry, but that they’re of marriageable age right now yet aren’t jumping to tie the knot. Chances are, you’re probably a girl who was lured here by the possibility of understanding part of the male psyche, and you probably know a bunch of great guys who don’t seem all that interested in settling down. We’re going to talk about those guys. This article also assumes that there is some sort of a marriage crisis. It generally takes this form: there are girls and guys who want to be married and aren’t. What a crisis. I don’t want to make light of the situation, though. For some, marriage is one of…

The Romance of Christmas – a Tale of True Love

Posted on December 6th, 2010

Christmas in northern Michigan is enchanting. The streets are decked in wreaths and ribbons, and ice sculptures dot the resorter seashore where foamy whitecaps struggle to stay free of an icy prison. Shoppers stroll the streets, steaming cups of coffee in their mittened hands, peering in the windows of Grandpa Shorter’s, Pappagallo’s, and Roast n’ Toast. The wind twists the branches of light-laced cherry trees beside the piers, bending boughs for a seaside dance in the darkness. The highlight of winter at home has always been the Petoskey Open House, when the town is closed to traffic for an entire evening of roasted chestnuts, caroling schoolchildren, and Christmas sales. With snowflakes spinning in the air, the sound of the high school’s steel drum band…

"I’m Going to be Betrothed!"

Posted on February 14th, 2010

When will you get married? Somebody needs to answer the question for the romantically absorbed singles! “I’m going to be betrothed,” I said in one way or another, with complete confidence overshadowing my ten year old social consciousness. Rachel, who was three years my junior, looked at me in utter horror. My peers laughed in disbelief. We had just been on the repetitive subject of boyfriends, and they once again pleaded for me to open up about my immature love life (“You’ve got to have a boyfriend, Amanda! How could you not?”). Most every girl I knew had a boyfriend, and some even had ex-boyfriends. In fact, the most popular girls seemed to have the most ex-boyfriends. I was tired of denying any romantic…